Moving children and inspiring life
In today's increasingly popular foreign festival, I pay special attention to Thanksgiving. Why is there no such a humane and ceremonial festival in a country like ours? Thanksgiving is to teach people to be grateful. Let children learn to be grateful and grateful. Only in this way can children look at every life from an equal perspective, respect every ordinary work and respect themselves more. Only those who know how to be grateful will have less grievances in their life.
One thing this afternoon made me feel deeply. When I got home from work, my son was doing his homework, and the clear tears came down from time to time, so I shouted to my son, "why did you catch a cold? Did you take off your clothes in the kindergarten?" "No, no, I'm obedient in kindergarten." Then he looked at his grandfather and said, "I forgot to bring my down jacket when I picked him up. I don't blame him." "Dad, it's windy and cool these two days. It's 16 degrees below zero. How can you“
Before he finished, his son snapped: "Mom, I'm fine. Don't scold Grandpa. Grandpa works hard to pick me up every day! And today is Grandpa's birthday. I have to make grandpa happy."
I didn't expect that my son, who was spoiled by my grandparents, was only 5 years old. He was so considerate to his family and knew how to repay love. I hugged my son. I felt that I was not as sensible as my son. My grandfather was wiping tears and said repeatedly, "grandpa didn't hurt you in vain, my good grandson."
After dinner, I talked with my family about this. Everyone agreed: "our education is successful, and we have taught children to be grateful." I always believe that learning to be grateful is a person's most important life cultivation. Only those who know how to be grateful know how to pay, pay for their loved ones, pay for their ideals, pay for the society and the motherland.
Nowadays, most of the only children in the family are the center of the family. They are the "little emperor" and "little princess" in the family. Four or five adults in the family revolve around them and give their children whatever they want. It's really "afraid of melting in your mouth and falling out in your hand." Over time, the child's heart is only himself, no one else. To let them learn "gratitude" is to let them learn to respect others.
A few days ago, my husband bought a book "moving my parents". After reading it, I felt ashamed, because I finally saw my selfishness. On the same day, I ran home and sat down honestly in front of my parents, talking to them about my childhood, my study, and the past events I brought to my parents.
I finally understand that the most fundamental task of education is to teach people to be grateful. People who know how to be grateful are noble people, people who know how to be grateful are worthy of life, and families who know how to be grateful are perfect families.
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