Defects are just strengths
Man is a perfect animal, and man is a defective animal. The more he pursues perfection, the more he exposes his defects. It may be said that the pursuit of perfection is one of the greatest defects of mankind.
The reason why a defect becomes a defect is that it often cannot be changed, especially a congenital defect.
In the face of defects, the best way is to accept them, digest them, sublimate them, and turn them into the power to forge ahead.
Thin people can save cloth, bald people can save shampoo, blind people can be masseuses, deaf people have no enemies - he turns a deaf ear to the slander of outsiders! A man with a poor memory has a wide heart. His brain doesn't have much space to fill the past. He is easier to avoid harm than others; People with weak physique can avoid impetuosity, and people with cowardice can reduce fighting and reduce the risk of failure; People with low IQ can work harder and avoid lack of confidence, pride and excessive jealousy.
Or a writer friend who is only 1.60 meters tall put it well: "dwarves take advantage of being writers - it's easier to be equal!"
You really understand the beauty of the defect.
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