In Jin Fu Xuan's "Prince Shao Fu Zhen", there is a saying:
"Therefore, those who are near Zhu are red, and those who are near ink are black; the sound is harmonious and the sound is clear, and the shape is straight and the shadow is straight."
is easy to turn red when approaching cinnabar, and tends to turn black when approaching black ink. In this metaphor, how people are around has a profound impact on a person's luck.
Being alive, what kind of person you associate with, and what kind of environment you live in are all related to a person's future growth.
Walking with the wise can increase wisdom. If you have the same frequency with the good, you can end well.
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Walking with the wise can increase wisdom.
The ancients said:
" Living with the good is like entering the room of Zhilan and not smelling the fragrance for a long time; living with the bad is like entering the place of abalone and not smelling the smell for a long time."
In the Warring States period, Mencius was very naughty since childhood.
When he and his mother were still living next to the cemetery, once, Mencius and the neighbor's children imitated the appearance of an adult kneeling and crying. When his mother saw it, she was deeply disturbed and moved to the market with Mencius.
As a result, Mencius and the neighbor’s children learned how to do business with businessmen, imitating them to bow and greet customers, bargain, and perform brilliantly.
Meng's mother saw it, but found it wrong, and finally took Mencius to move near the school.
The people here are lawful and courteous, and love to read. She feels that Mencius can grow up here to become a real talent.
The allusion of "Mengmu's Three Moves" tells us that walking with the kind of people will lay the foundation for life and achieve what kind of life.
Sincerely like Mencius, with the funeral, I learned how to cry and bow down.
Being with business people, learning is the way to greet each other. With people who love to read, you can learn a lot of etiquette and elegance.
More exposure to positive energy will keep negative energy away. If you respect the fool and stay away, the wise will be on your side.
The so-called wise man is someone who can increase your wisdom and lead you to the right path.
, like the Zhilan Yushu, was born in Tingjieer.
Walking with the wise, there are fewer detours and more prospects. The avenues of life are all broad.
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With the same frequency as the good, you can end well.
Zeng Zi said: "Humans are good, although good fortune has not come, but disaster is far away."
For the kind-hearted people, the blessing may not come yet, but the disaster is far away.
Kind-hearted people, with their own strength, will help in times of difficulty, and help in times of poverty.
did a good deed, but he didn't want to fantasize or talk about it.
Kind people, low-key and humble, treat others with a smile, never care.
If there are conflicts with people, I will try my best to resolve them and let it go.
The good people do good, do not ask for rewards, but in the dark, accumulate blessings for themselves.
Good deeds are the cause, and good retribution is the result.
When you are sincere for others, others will also be sincere in return.
The kind seeds that were sown inadvertently at the beginning will also give birth to huge good fruits as time goes by.
But true kindness is not about responding to requests and not rejecting those who come, but about showing some edge and leaving a bottom line.
To be a wise man who knows right and wrong can he become a principled good man.
Don't let your own charcoal in the snow, but it will become a matter of course in the eyes of others later.
Don't agree to all demands, otherwise, if the kindness is overdone, it will become evil.
With the same frequency as the good, you can end well. But your kindness should be sharp.
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Great wisdom must be modest, great kindness must be forgiving.
"The great wisdom must be humble, and the great good must be forgiving."
Modesty and tolerance are the most tender and rare qualities of a person.
Great wisdom must be humble, and those who know how to be humble have great wisdom in themselves.
Small achievements, but not proud. Standing in a high position, but not aggressive.
The great good must be forgiving, and those who know how to tolerate are the great good of the good.
It's not a trivial matter, don't care about it. The chest is full of strength, and tolerance is big.
The more humble you are, the more respect you can win.
If you have a small achievement, you are proud and complacent.
Or, relying on oneself in a high position, just despise others at will, and in the end, they will only be cold-eyed by others.
The more tolerant you are, the more kindness you can gain.
If it's because of a little bit of something, it's harmless at first, but you have to care about others, and you have to fight for right or wrong.
Even if you win, you will lose the little kindness the other party has for you.
What about standing on the top, the loneliness of "high place is not cold", not everyone can taste it.
What about arguing about right and wrong? How many people can understand the truth that "the human heart is the world"?
A truly wise man can get close to people without grudges.
The true good can be convenient with others, and don't embarrass them.
Walk with the wise and with the good.
Learn the humility of the wise, the tolerance of the good, and behave in this way, so that we can have a bright future and a more splendid life.
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