Settle accounts for life
 

The teacher said, "a person's life, if he lives 80 years old, consists of ten digits of 2.528 billion seconds. Do you know how many digits are extracted from these ten digits?"
 

I am a bit conceited. In the first successful training, one course was "know yourself". The teacher said: "many of us know the world, but only don't know ourselves..." I immediately raised my hand and said, "teacher, I know myself, I know what I think and want." The teacher looked at me with a smile and said, "what's your name?" "Li Yilin" I answered. "How old are you?" "don't laugh at the age of 5. During the training, the lecturer asked us to relax ourselves, let go of all our burdens and shackles, and return to our innocent childhood - the age of 5." I answered. The teacher smiled softly again: "good, then your blood type" "O type." I answered. "What are the characteristics of type O blood group?" I can't answer. The teacher smiled softly again, motioned me to sit down and said to hundreds of people, "you don't know, so people don't really know themselves... Now, let's play a game - look in the mirror." The game of looking in the mirror is that everyone finds a crotch and faces each other. You are his "mirror" and he is your "mirror". The upper half lets us
 

It's really like a 5-year-old child. One person does all kinds of strange actions and the other imitates them. Everyone laughs very happy; In the rest, Party A and Party B stood together, looking for advantages and disadvantages, focusing on advantages and praising each other. Everyone also thought it was fun and still laughed; But in the second half, under the guidance of music, lights and teachers, with their eyes closed, everyone put a "movie" in their mind, recovered their past shortcomings, and even began to confess their past mistakes and responsibilities. Tears flashed in their eyes and tears flowed on their faces. I cried, too. This time I cried without any physical or psychological pain.
 

Strange?
 

The reason for my tears is that in the process of closing my eyes, I listened to the teacher carefully calculate such an account for us. The teacher said that this account was actually calculated on the 80th birthday of writer Xie Bingxin. He said: 80 × ３６５＝２９０００；
 

２９０００ × ２４＝７００８００；
 

７００８００ × ６０＝４２０４８０００；
 

４２０４８０００ × ６０＝２５２２８８００００。
 

The teacher said: "A person's life is made up of ten digit seconds if he lives 80 years old, but now you have extracted many days, and there may be only nine digits, eight digits or even less in your life inventory! I'm not sure whether you are successful or not, but I dare say that everyone here doesn't account for himself like a writer, and no one can accurately say how many digits he has passed, that is to say, no one really knows Know yourself; I also dare to say that everyone here is in his twenties, so you don't have much time left, but you have to do countless things... Many of us calculate the account very carefully when buying vegetables, consuming and operating stores, but life is also business. Why don't we seriously calculate the account of life? " That year, I was in my infancy. If I was 80 years old according to the "Xie Bingxin principle", I should have lived 10950 days and 946080000 seconds. Specifically, on October 14, in 10950 days, 314 days should be added. At this time, I was very afraid, because I found that nearly half of my life had been extracted, and the extracted nearly half was passed by in a muddle, which was a waste! If that kind of waste can be sentenced, I'd like to go to jail to wash my sins. However, I can't. I can only try not to waste the remaining 18050 days and make an oath of "taking every day as the last day of my life".
 

Four years have passed. Now, I am also a person who teaches people to "look in the mirror". It's not how I succeed, but I have too much experience of "looking in the mirror". Moreover, there is always a big mirror in my bedroom to look at myself from time to time. Especially before going to bed, I will quietly examine myself, what I have done in a day, and find out whether I have "made a little progress every day". Although I am very worried and afraid that others say I am narcissistic or scold me as "pig Bajie looking in the mirror", I am still very righteous and have advised all my friends I have been with: look in the mirror often! Go to me and look in the mirror! As for "looking in the mirror", I have to mention Japan. Although I hate my country's family feud so much that I don't want to mention them, they are powerful. They created "devil training", that is to say, "looking in the mirror" is their invention. But when our Chinese people are still debating whether "looking in the mirror" is too female, too "that", unwilling to stand in front of the mirror and look at themselves carefully and think they know how much they weigh, Young people in other people's "little Japan" (in fact, little Japan is no longer small, regardless of economic development, and the average height has exceeded us. Chinese people, we have to work harder) have begun to spend a sum of money to go to the investigation office or detective agency, entrust others to investigate themselves, and then let others tell them who they are, so as to truly grasp and confirm their position in society, or let lovers and friends know themselves.
 

I don't know what kind of person I am, just like the Chinese people often say "forget your last name". In fact, this is not only a misunderstanding that people often have, but also difficult for human beings to surpass
 

The weakness of human nature. A lamp can illuminate the surrounding space, but it will just leave the darkness under the lamp. Psychologists believe that a person first knows the external world and then begins to know himself. The individual's self-consciousness is gradually established and strengthened in adolescence. It's strange that you didn't know Dell before he was engraved on the gate of the ancient Greek temple.
 

Just because people have this bad root, they need to be reminded and instructed often. It is wise for Japanese youth to ask the research institute to investigate themselves. If you ask a success study, psychology or success training mentor to "feel the pulse", you will also benefit a lot. Robert, an expert in personality analysis in the United States? Philip once received a homeless man who was heavily in debt and left his wife and daughter to wander around in his office because of the collapse of his own business. The man came in and said, "I'm here to see the author of this book." Then he took out a book called self-confidence from his pocket, which was written by Robert many years ago. The wanderer continued, "it must have been fate who put this book in my pocket yesterday afternoon, because I decided to jump to Lake Michigan and kill the rest of my life. I have seen through everything and think that everything has been desperate, all people (including God) Has abandoned me, but fortunately, I saw this book, which made me have a new view, brought me courage and hope, and supported me through last night. I have
 

Determined that as long as I can see the author of this book, he will help me stand up again. Now, here I am. I want to know what you can do for someone like me. " As he spoke, Robert looked at the tramp from head to foot and found his blank eyes, depressed wrinkles, unshaven beard for more than ten days and nervous look, which completely showed Robert that he was hopeless. But Robert couldn't bear to say that to him. So please ask him to sit down and ask him to tell his story completely.
 

After hearing the tramp's story, Robert thought for a moment and said, "although I can't help you, if you like, I can introduce you to a person in this building who can help you earn back the money you lost and help you make a comeback." As soon as Robert finished, he jumped up, grabbed Luo's hand and said, "for heaven's sake, please take me to this man."
 

He will make this request for "God's sake", which shows that there is still a glimmer of hope in his heart. So Roberta took his hand and guided him to the psychological laboratory engaged in personality analysis and stood with him in front of a curtain cloth that looked like hanging at the door. Robert opened the curtain to reveal a tall mirror in which he could see his whole body. Robert pointed to the mirror and said, "this is the person. There is only one person in the world who can make you rise again, unless you sit down and know this person thoroughly - as
 

You haven't known him before - otherwise, you can only jump into Lake Michigan, because until you know this person well, you will be a worthless waste to yourself or the world. " He took a few steps towards the mirror, touched his bearded face with his hand, looked at the people in the mirror from head to foot for a few minutes, then stepped back, lowered his head and began to cry. After a while, Robert led him out of the elevator and took him away.
 

A few days later, Robert met this man in the street, and he was no longer a tramp. He was dressed in a suit, walked briskly and forcefully, and raised his head high. The old, uneasy and nervous attitude had disappeared. He said he thanked Mr. Robert for helping him find himself and quickly found a job. Later, the man really made a comeback and became a rich man in Chicago.
 

Now, in every successful training, there is such a "look in the mirror" course. I think that a failed friend or a friend who pursues success will have a very different effect from the one you took before you went out.