Struggle like Shaoping and love like moistening leaves
 

Text / Zheng Haiou
 

On weekdays, you run in a hurry. You say you have no time to read, study and think about the future; At the weekend, the sun has licked the roof. You slowly open your bleary eyes. You say it's not easy to have time. It's the last word to rest willfully. Slowly, habits become natural, and you live a sloppy life more and more, even disdaining to break your ideals with yourself. You say, let it be, there's nothing wrong; You say that your things will come, not your demands. Even if you know that you are not happy.
 

Whenever I meet you like this, I will think that in my 20s, I am in a vibrant youth. I don't take valuable time to improve myself, and don't build, pursue and realize my dreams. Instead, I take following the tide as a creed, and put a pessimistic tone of "fatalism" on my life early, which makes people strangle my wrists.
 

Indeed, there are many helplessness in real life. The daily major and minor events are so complicated that it is too easy to consume people's time and energy. Naturally, we will feel that we are powerless to control the future, so we have no firm direction. It seems that not trying to change has become the worst choice. The deeper you fall into this mire, the easier it is to lie down early and muddle along in a comfortable and loose life. Thus, life enters a dead cycle.
 

However, let life lose to endless trivia? Lowering your head and taking a detour in the face of difficulties, not thinking about ways to solve problems, not pursuing a positive life, has always been the poison of life; When you sigh "fate" and flinch at a young age, the "young dream" can only wither and wither in your heart. Just think, many years later, when you look back on Paul Kochakin's sentence "a person's life should be spent like this: when he looks back on the past, he will not regret for wasting his time, nor will he be ashamed of doing nothing"?
 

So, can we find a glimmer of hope and a way out in this dead circle maze?
 

The ancients said that people always succeed and often come. Especially for young people, only on the road can they have a future and a better future. On the road, it is no longer the slack of "don't do it if you can", but the high ambition of "do it if you can, don't do it, and create conditions"; On the way, he tried to analyze the myriad affairs in order to get twice the result with half the effort; On the way, we should nourish the soul, increase the potential of life, and use reading and learning to improve our ability and broaden our horizons. In this way, we not only jumped out of the gentle trap of fatalism, but also stepped onto the ladder of positive energy.
 

Of course, no pains, no gains, and shortening the distance between dreams and reality can not be achieved overnight. We must have the spirit of "Yingke advance". Wang Yangming said in the book of biography, "if you are determined to work hard, you are like planting a tree. If you have a root and bud, there is still no stem; if you have a stem, there is no branch, branch then leaf, leaf then flower and fruit. When you first plant a root, just cultivate and irrigate, don't think about branches, leaves, flowers and fruit. What's the benefit of suspense? But don't forget the cultivation, I'm afraid there are no branches, leaves and flowers?" He intended to emphasize a law of doing things: eager for quick success and instant benefit, thinking more and doing less, which is meaningless; And step by step, that is, it will come naturally.
 

In addition, we must use the Kung Fu of "only essence" and "only". Comparing rice with rice, Wang Yangming said that in order to realize the "only" of pure white rice, there must be "the work of pounding, winnowing, sieving and picking up" only the essence ". Therefore, people also need to" learn, interrogate, think carefully and act diligently "for a long time. Otherwise, the accumulation of small vacillating thoughts and the accumulation of small idleness will be "like the dust on the ground. If you don't sweep it for a day, there will be another layer", and even all your previous achievements will be wasted.
 

Young people are in the prosperous period of eight or nine o'clock. Don't discount their good years. "Struggle like Shaoping and love like moistening leaves". Happiness is waiting to embrace you who are ready.